Where does all this lead to?

Take a minute to stop and think of how far you want to take this. What would the impact of the extramarital relationship be on your marriage and family? Where will it lead and at what cost? When will it end?

Leading a dual life can take its toll, and it would be a good idea to assess the risks and costs involved, versus the gains. And also consider alternatives – how would it be if you could experience the same excitement within your marriage?

It’s important to think through the situation rather than be swayed only by emotions which are prone to change.